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And that is the important thing to remember: this is a state, not an identity. States change. If you find yourself here, you are not broken, and you are not stuck forever. Your nervous system adapted in order to protect you. With support, safety, and the right tools, it can also learn how to reconnect, regulate, and heal. https://www.marcylanglois.com/blog-1/you-may-be-trying-too-hard-to-heal-your-nervous-system monthly 0.5 2026-05-27 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/699f3dd96f480d3f6fc3fcd9/32d8e172-f16e-4b0f-a19f-3b20af615581/Midjourney_++Woman%27s+profile+blends+with+vibrant+natural+landscape%2C+serene+and+ethereal_.jpg Blog - You May Be Trying Too Hard to Heal Your Nervous System One of the hardest truths about nervous system healing is this: Your nervous system may not be healing because you’re trying so hard to make it heal. I know how frustrating that can feel. 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